Hello!!!, :). My very faithfuls! This article may seem like i'm digressing from our usual but no. Remember i'm here to give tips on how to achieve flawless beauty :D. This blog entails all that can improve beauty from the inside to your very alluring physical appearance. Through all my studies on how to serve you best, i realised that no matter the number of articles i write, giving several recipes on how to attain a flawless skin, no doubt a flawless skin improves ones self esteem but it's not complete if one is broken on the inside.
A lot of people, who you would assume "have it all" with regards to only that which the eye sees are broken on the inside. You dont need to have it all in life to be complete neither do you have to be poor to be broken. There are many people driving in a porsche, sitting in a hot tub and contemplating sucide. Pro football players, models, actors and chief executive officers are at thier wit ends. Most are stressed and empty, hurting and vulnerable.
Lots of men and women out there are on a quest for perfection which i must say is very toxic. Nothing has to be perfect. Take a break! someone inside needs to be heard and be filled with affection. Attend to you, your soul, your heart,you need fixing! This you i'm talking about is the broken impoverished you that have been suppressed with a fake smile, successful career and all the perishable good things of life which you will leave behind one day.
Dear woman; i know you have been hurt a countless number of times that you feel your broken heart can never be mended and become whole again. Being broken or hurt is not necessarily the result of a broken relationship. It could be the abuse as a young girl child which you suffered. It could be the strong negative words planted in you by loved ones who you look up to. Yes,i know! But you have to let go. Forgive, dust yourself and look all these negativity in the face and say "i will go on".
You have built this very concrete wall around the broken pieces of your heart not to let it go ever again. But life doesnt work that way because your broken soul still has a negative effect on you that steals the light of feminity from ur eyes. You have to let yourself heal and in order to adjust, you have to let your vulnerability show. It took a longtime before i realised that i should be able to show emotions and sometimes i would let myself be vulnerable just to feel real emotions. You will have to learn to forgive others and most importantly forgive urself (as many would take it out on themselves for making mistakes), the truth is you are born to make mistakes and not to fake perfection with a broken soul.
Women are a valuable and indespensable part of God's plan. A broken woman will always make a broken home if she doesn't heal before taken in as a man's wife. A whole woman! In bed she is sensual; in prayer she is spiritual; in business she is shrewd. She is resourceful, vibrant woman with ingenuity and self esteem. She is complete. My point exactly is no matter how beautiful and flawless you appear physically, if you are impoverished on the inside, you will still not be so attractive.Yes! Because as ironic as it is, even the broken man wants a whole woman. He wants something from her which he does not posses himself. Ah, the double standards of the law of attraction are so unfair, yet it is true. Know this; a man, friends, power,success and sex cannot fill this void you feel as a broken woman. Look for God. Yes, you may not call him what i call him but he is the absolute of all you need to be whole again. He can be anyhow you want and need him. ;).
Dear man, i love your strong masculinity. I love your sense of wanting to protect and provide for your woman. Words cannot express how women adore you. You hide so much beneath all the responsbilties placed on you by nature and God. Beneath the shinning armour is a soul that longs to be touched, that seeks loyalty,that seeks to be loved even when your emotions and flaws are obvious. You want to be hugged and still be assured of love and loyalty and not seen as weak. You are broken and lonely. You are on a continous quest to find wholeness, to be complete. I'm not just speaking to the single man. I'm also speaking to the man that is lost in his his relationship or marriage. Who cannot even let his vulnerability show to his patner. Most men because of these void flip from one woman's bed to another all in the search for satisfaction. But i tell you sex, money and power will never give you that satisfaction. You have to learn to communicate your need and weakness its okay to be vulnerable sometimes. I know many men have been robbed just because they let thier guard down. But it is no use to remain vague all to protect you. You do not have to remain outwardly successful and impoverished just because you have been robbed of optimism. I understand that you have become hard to convince so you trust no one. But hey let your guard down not to the devil but to feel real love and the grace of God. So dare to love, find your path through mistrust and betrayal and mend your broken soul again! Peace.
Still wondering why i wrote this particular post? Well, its simple. A beautiful soul allows a flawless skin glow extraordinarily.Thanks :D.
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